You’re bold….a risk taker, and more than anything, you want to live a rich, full life. You have already accomplished so much, but you know there’s more. With every passing year, it becomes more important to you to live with real purpose, using the short time you have on this planet to your full advantage, making every moment count. There are things left undone, and you don’t want to leave anything on the table of life.

In this spirit, we invite you to embark on a transformative odyssey of self-discovery on one of our Undone Retreats. Our self-actualizing retreat is a haven for those seeking inner harmony, personal growth, and a deeper connection with their true selves.

Leave Everything Behind: Our retreats provide a serene escape from the hustle and bustle of daily life. A place where you can step back and look at your life as a whole, to see where you’ve been, and decide where you’re going.

A Retreat Tailored to You: This retreat is designed for individuals at every stage of their personal journey. Whether you’re seeking clarity on life’s purpose, overcoming challenges, or simply reconnecting with yourself, our program is tailored to meet your unique needs.

Your Path to Self-Actualization Begins Here: Join us on a retreat that transcends the ordinary and opens doors to self-actualization. Embrace the transformative power of nature’s beauty, the wisdom of holistic practices, and the warmth of like-minded souls on a similar quest.

Book your retreat now and take the first step towards a more fulfilling and empowered version of yourself. The journey within awaits.

IMAGINE…

• Wake after a deep sleep in the morning light, wrapped in fresh sheets in a private room, ready to reflect into the day
• Relax with your favorite drink poolside, your toes dangling in the heated water
• Feel time stretching before you to find the inspiration and energy you need to make a change
• Benefit deeply from the skill and care of two expert coaches and attentive villa staff, there to listen, guide and serve you completely

About Your Facilitators

Kelly Carlin-McCall understands what it takes to be able to move out of one’s own way to reach what you deeply desire – she’s lived it, written about it and created a path for others to achieve it too. She’s the best-selling author of A Carlin Home Companion, and an Emmy Award winning producer of the HBO documentary, George Carlin’s American Dream. Her over 20+ years of study and practice in Zen Buddhism, Co-Active Coaching and Jungian/Imaginal Psychology are the foundation for her powerful programs and courses through her Humans on the Verge coaching business. Her passion is to inspire and help others to boldly step into the more authentic, enlivening and impactful next chapter of their lives.

Melissa McFarlane is an internationally-recognized coach with over 30 years of experience in executive, business, and personal coaching. As founder and owner of both CSE and The Make Good Company, Melissa works one on one, in small group settings, and with large organizations. She has demonstrated an uncanny, intuitive genius for removing barriers and cutting through personal and organizational roadblocks to allow real emotional, mental, and practical breakthroughs to occur. Her work focuses on assisting her clients to take responsibility for, and then realize, their personal and group potential.

destination retreats

Leave Everything Behind

When we try to envision what we don’t yet have from the confines of what we already have, it is difficult to see beyond the limitations of the existing container. We need to get out of Dodge! It is for this reason that we always choose the most inspiring, open, peaceful environs in the world. To be one of the first to know where Undone Retreats will take us next, schedule a chat with us right now!

RELEASE patterns of behavior and thought that keep you tied to your status quo

REVIVE your sense of power and possibility

RECEIVE important feedback from peers and your guides, to stay in the present and move towards your new vision of your future

DISCERN your direction and the best next steps

Our Last Retreat: Italy, October 2024

A Week in a Tuscan Villa

The Villa Daniella Grossi

Our retreat took place at Villa Daniella Grossi, a breathtaking Villa with immaculate grounds, luxury suites, and a swimming pool. At this well-staffed Villa, all of our needs were taken care of, including a hearty breakfast, and amazing dinners, prepared nightly by the Villa’s  team.

Morning Workshops

Intensive Self-Discovery

Every morning, guests participated in an exclusive retreat workshop, designed to help them uncover the next steps in co-creating their desired life.

These powerful workshops allowed the participants to ask the most important questions about their lives, decide what it was they wanted to accomplish, and create an action plan do the things in their lives that were yet undone.

Excursions

Experiencing Italy

It wasn’t all work and no play! We went on plenty of outings to take in the best of what Italy has to offer. We explored the city of Cinque Terre and walked along its breathtaking coast.

We also spent the day in the city of Lucca, an unbelievably beautiful Italian city, which was full of art, architecture, and history.

Activities

Cooking, Tasting, and More…

We learned the in’s and out’s of making traditional Italian cuisine from scratch. Yes, that includes making our own pasta. We also went to an olive oil tasting on the farm where they grow, harvest, and press the olives. Plus, a full body massage, and a night at the opera!

Relationships

Becoming Friends and Colleagues

Few things are as inspiring as developing relationships with people who are determined to write the next and best chapter of their lives. The entire retreat was shot through with a contagious and exciting energy that propelled all the participants forward.

Food

What can we say?

We ate the best food in the world. 🙂

MEANING What matters most to you? Knowing you cannot run down all paths with the time you have left, which vision of life will bring you the most sense of meaning and keep you engaged along the way?

METTLE What are your strengths? Where do you struggle? When you understand what you can leverage and you develop yourself in the gaps, you have the power to seize your vision.

MOMENTUM What keeps you moving towards what you truly want? Installing the right support, habits, structure and partners, eases the effort and condenses the timeline to success.

MAKING GOOD Are you making your mark and is it a satisfying one? Every human yearns to benefit others as they live into their gifts. Choose the good you want to create next, leverage where you’ve already been, using the new tools and resources we’ve learned together.

You know there’s more life to live.

There are more adventures to experience, accomplishments to reach, dreams to manifest, big things to do and small moments to cherish.

With all you do, there is no place or time where you can unplug from the rush of life to land back into an uncluttered and quiet space within so that you can remember what you really want, who you are, and what wants attention next.

You know what you want next, but you feel like you need to meet a new part of yourself to start your new adventure. You need to be see with and be seen with new eyes so that you can find the courage and fortitude to begin.

For years you’ve been going and going and going. You know that a change in direction or focus is calling you but you’re not sure how you would pivot or leap off the path you’ve been on.

You’ve done a lot, made a lot, helped a lot, but there is a dream, an urge that is just for you and not the world. If you don’t do it, you feel you will have left a piece of your life un-lived.

It’s not too late to capture it all!

With the right questions, some unique techniques, discussion, reflection and a gentle, purposeful space of accountability, you will harness the courage, clarity and momentum to plan and capture the next chapter of your life.

Curious just what’s possible? Here are some outcomes others have received by moving through the “Undone” process:

• • Curated a year of adventure and travel
  • Walked away from unsatisfying career paths and claimed a new path with increased energy and income
  • Embarked on their own to create successful businesses based on their years of expertise and connections
  • Found the courage to release from toxic relationships, leaving space to find their true love or family of friends
  • Aligned with perfect partners to create a legacy in the form of foundations, initiatives and experiences
  • Transitioned to nomadic lifestyle in refurbished van
  • Fast-track to Executive Director in parallel organization where they could make the biggest difference
  • Run for office
  • Found a path to retirement when no funds or resources existed
  • Found the wisdom within their own heart and mind to heal and love themselves into a place of peace and empowerment
  • Made deep connections with lifetime friends
  • Rediscovered confidence, direction and purpose
  • Discovered the courage to leap into creative expression they’d been dreaming about for years
  • Cleared longstanding depression and self-sabotaging thoughts and behaviors to live w/profound peace
  • End decades of co-dependent behavior and people pleasing for a more fulfilling personal and professional path

You can’t imagine a better combination of leaders for this experience. Both founders of established, vibrant and successful coaching communities, Kelly and Melissa are a dream-team.

With over 100 retreats, workshops, events and intimate group programs led all over the world, each brings a cadre of unique qualities and gifts built on decades of study, experience and practice.

Undone Italy features proven training, exercises, worksheets, hi-impact spotlight coaching, and innovative deep-development processes. It is a warm, wise space to explore, dream, muse and plan, that firmly champions you to take on new challenges, bravely release what no longer works, and claim more impactful ways of being in the world.

In addition to the daily workshop time during our trip, Kelly and Melissa are also offering BONUS pre- and post-retreat online Monthly Coaching Sessions (value: $3000) to prepare you to get the most out of your retreat experience, and support you as you re-enter the world.